Sunday, July 3, 2011

A letter to my ex

dear,
i knew you could be bought because everyone told me so.but i was not told that i might fall in love with you.but how could anyone would have told me about that as you are the mistress of all the men and master of the rest.i thought i was different but i was wrong.i held the belief for a long time that i could resist the charm you hold.i could defy your beauty,i could deny your pleasures but the lux of your beauty was enough for me to love you.you surrounded me and seduced me at the time when i was the strongest to resist you.But you knew my weakness and how i romanced with it and you tore all my defenses down just like shimmering sword cuts through the silk.You had me then an there and i though why did i even try to even resist you.You were the best, you provided warmth,your touch took away the isolation i had been living in.Oh yes i was one of those who adored you and couldn't live without you as you were slowly becoming the cool around me when i thought i needed it most ,yes you had me when i "thought".

Why couldn't you leave me alone.I thoughtI loved you .You know that better than anyone else but you love me for what i'am not,for something you want me to be.i enjoyed the euphoria when i was around you but you will spoil me and melt me into another of your trophies.

You were there to use me and give me false hope and sense of security which i never seeked ,to demonstrate your power over me and embarrass me, that anyone who boasts about his power over your beauty will be crushed.but you are not what i seek.you are not what i adore,you are not what i fancied,you are not who i love.The one i love lives on a landscape far far away.I love someone who is so beautiful that voices fall apart when we try to speak.I will fall short of words even today to describe my love for her.As you could never describe what you love, you can live in it, you can feel it.the warmth of the girl i love i've felt ,yes in my dreams ,yes those are the dreams my kind never forgets because she knows i want her even though i was comforting with you .she knows i deserve best .she knows that you are a prostitute who tricks people to her bed for everything they have got,she knows you close their eyes so they cant see what they are missing.that is why she comes to people like us in in our dreams for we go through half our lives with our eyes closed only realizing we have been stripped of everything we ever had. To pay for your pleasures.I don't love you ,i hate you and i resent you .i hate you enough to change you but that is a task of two for it can only be done when i meet the one I truly love.maybe then i might start even loving you too.I don't know what to call you now but since the beginning of the time there is only one appropriate and a dignified name you had so i will call you by that name only "the society".

your well wisher,
a changed person

p.s.:no ps this time.

Monday, May 2, 2011

Discovering objectivity!!!!

Discovering objectivity

Discovering objectivity

When I was a newly graduated college student ( I am sad to say) I did not know what objective was... I remember looking up the definition and still not understanding what it meant or how to use it properly. I also could not tell you the difference between "subjective" and "objective". The Cambridge On-Line Dictionary defines objective as an adjective and is "based on real facts and not influenced by personal beliefs or feelings" then it says "NOTE: The opposite is subjective." I had this idea they should be opposite but I could not tell you why. I want to take a moment to explain two things; 1. Why I didn't know the difference between subjectivity and objectivity and 2. Why knowing the difference has changed my life so much.

Not knowing the difference, on the face of things is easy to explain; I was never taught. Why was I not taught this and what was I taught is where it gets complicated and while it may sound subjective I will try to give evidence to back up what I am saying. Before I start I want to point out that there was nothing subversive or bad about what happened it is just the way things are. They are this way and have been this way for many thousands of years, since before written history, a cultural program.

Buddha on Objectivity

BuddhaBelieve nothing on the faith of traditions, even though they have been held in honor for many generations and in diverse places.

Do not believe a thing because many people speak of it.

Do not believe on the faith of the sages of the past.

Do not believe what you yourself have imagined, persuading yourself that a God inspires you.

Believe nothing on the sole authority of your masters and priests.

After examination, believe what you yourself have tested and found to be reasonable, and conform your conduct thereto.

- the Lord Buddha

Ayn Rand's philosophy, Objectivism

Objectivism holds that:

Ayn Rand1. Reality exists as an objective absolute-facts are facts, independent of man's feelings, wishes, hopes or fears.

2. Reason (the faculty which identifies and integrates the material provided by man's senses) is man's only means of perceiving reality, his only source of knowledge, his only guide to action, and his basic means of survival.

3. Man-every man-is an end in himself, not the means to the ends of others. He must exist for his own sake, neither sacrificing himself to others nor sacrificing others to himself. The pursuit of his own rational self-interest and of his own happiness is the highest moral purpose of his life.

4. The ideal political-economic system is laissez-faire capitalism. It is a system where men deal with one another, not as victims and executioners, nor as masters and slaves, but as traders, by free, voluntary exchange to mutual benefit. It is a system where no man may obtain any values from others by resorting to physical force, and no man may initiate the use of physical force against others. The government acts only as a policeman that protects man's rights; it uses physical force only in retaliation and only against those who initiate its use, such as criminals or foreign invaders. In a system of full capitalism, there should be (but, historically, has not yet been) a complete separation of state and economics, in the same way and for the same reasons as the separation of state and church.

"Knowing" is important!

What is the difference between Subjective and Objective?

People seem to believe we lose our humanity by being objective. I suggest the opposite is true. Our humanity is lost in the swill of negative subjective beliefs allowing people to kill in gods name or some other belief or ignore the looming growing population that is COMSUMING the earths resources exponentially. I do however believe that great good comes of positive subjective thought, art, literature (my pictures) etc.. But I suggest we begin to get people to understand that objective people have not lost their humanity and that great good can come out of objective people. We might even begin to solve some problems.

I suggest that objectivity brings a person to balance. It allows a person to understand of what he or she believes versus what he or she knows to true or have a grasp of reasoned reality. Breaking away from ingrained cultural programmed subjective thought will not be easy and will take time. At first, if you are like me, you may even get angry at people for giving you their subjective answers but if you work through the anger you might find peace of mind as I have...

I would also suggest that objectivity can bring the world into balance just as it has done for me, by allowing the world to have an understanding of the reasoned reality. Reasoned reality will allow people to work together for a common goal by putting aside their beliefs and understanding that reasoned reality is more important.

Knowing the difference between the objective and the subjective is one of understanding; objective is the knowing and subjective is the believing; objective is the thinking and the subjective is the feeling. Understanding this difference is quite important because our world is in peril with things such as war, racism and global warming. By learning the difference, we can temper the extremes of the good and bad brought with only an understanding of subjectivity. By understanding when we are being subjective and objective we will have the ability to choose; for now we are compelled by our feelings. We need to understand the boundaries of what we know so we can get past our beliefs and feelings and into a better future.

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Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Do Something! Always!!

fox has a different taste Mr Rabbit


Once upon a time a peaceful eagle was sitting on top of a tree doing nothing and just gazing through time.
A rabbit came running under the tree and asked the Eagle "may i also sit under the tree and do nothing".The eagle answered "yeah why not".So rabbit also just sat there .
Suddenly a fox came and attacked the Rabbit and digested it.

END OF STORY

Moral of the story:To sit and do nothing you have to be sitting on the top.

Monday, December 27, 2010

Small talk


let us try to have more of him in our heads than in our pockets!

wITHERING WISDOM

If you cant measure something it does not mean that it is not present.

Monday, November 29, 2010

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

TIME wRAP!!!!!!


While everyone was celebrating that I couldn't join the festival celebration.I was inside behind my study table doing my time with Miss.November on Playboy.But after long abuses from my subconscious brain I went to study physics,thinkingh about people like me who are torn apart b/w playboy and H.C.V . Cursing Newton I went into my wardrobe and turned on the TIME MACHINE button...........................................and here i was in 16th century clothes on top 0f an apple tree.......................and this is now what happened.... this is wat i said to the guy sitting below the tree.........................

Hey dont you sit here tight
A guy is gonna come with hair all white,
The laws soooner will make you hit,
He's gonna say its all shit.

Yeah yo do look out for a fruit coming down!!,
Or am gonna pimp you like a clown.

Newton:So wat do u say my lame friend?

Take down your wig and let the sprouts grow.
Check that blonde out you might make a go!,
Dare! you think about any motionbefore night,
I gotta notion you gonna do all right.

Now you are a bro I pronounce....

And its time,
and looks loke you are gonna do all fine,
For now i gotta treat another whit haired douche called Einstien!


P.S no offence to GAYS,JERKS ,NERDS....
P.S no ofence again
P.S look out for spelling nmistakes................